
John Fer arrived in Lebanon just in time for our Spring Break. His first two days here he joined each of us at school. Then the fun began. We showed him the sites of Beirut, stopping often for falafel sandwiches. Of course we pointed out the infamous Holiday Inn, used by snipers during the Civil War shortly after the hotel was opened. Built to sustain earthquakes, it is still standing today relatively unharmed (if you don't count all those bullet holes.) We brought him to the beautiful port town of Byblos. We had been once before in September, but it was a totally different place in the spring. The grounds of the castle were decorated by the colorful wild flowers, which also provided a brilliant fragrance to top of the fresh smell of the sea.
And it just so happens that there is a delicious little Mexican restaurant (run by Lebanese people) overlooking the old port. Nothing says a Mediteranean sunset like a Margarita and fajita!
We got a ride back to Beirut from a newly engaged couple. In typical Lebanese fashion, I asked directions for a bus back to the city and they offered us a ride! They were both in university, and had gotten engaged the previous weekend. When the Lebanese get engaged, it's quite an affair. The first set of rings are exchanged on this occasion, and the event is top notch- catering, professional photographer, fancy suits and dresses. Lebanese women expect at least a diamond ring and a matching accessory such as a bracelet or necklace. The rest of the set will be expected at the actual wedding. But I digress....our lovely new friends dropped us at the edge of the city.
We meandered back home, stopping along the way to wet the whistle. Walking back through downtown we stopped in admiration of the glowing Hariri mosque. Just behind the mosque is a Christian church and at Christmas time the huge Christmas tree sits in between the two. It's a powerful symbol of religious diversity in Lebanon .John was such an easy and delightful visitor. He was happy to do anything or nothing. We spent our mornings drinking coffee and discussing politics, literature and philosophy. We ate a lot of delicious street food and we jumped at every opportunity that presented itself. We saw an incredible concert of Arabic fusion jazz played by a newly formed 14 member band. The entire event was in Arabic, which was refreshing. There's so much English in our part of the city that it's easy to forget where you are. One morning- after our political coffee hour- we decided to try our luck at the Syrian border. None of us had procured visas, and the rumor mill suggested Americans were forced to wait a few hours before getting across. But what the hell. It was worth a shot. Finding a bus to get there was cheap and easy. The ride to the border was cheap and easy. Getting out of Lebanon was free and easy. Getting into Syria was.....
not so easy. This picture was taken during one of the several visits we made to the conveniently located Italian restaurant during our SEVEN HOUR WAIT. When we arrived they told us to wait 1, maybe 2 hours. Not a big deal. 3 Hours later we were told "Ma barif" which means, "I don't know." I noticed our passports sitting in a pile on the desk. We weren't the only ones waiting. A few other American girls were there when we arrived, and they were waiting as well. Every hour or so one of us would take a turn to check if there had been any progress. "Ma barif" was the continual response. Until suddenly (7 hours later, mind you) the mood changed and we were welcomed with open arms. From that point on, every person we met in Syria was an absolute pleasure. We crossed our fingers and headed to one of the hostels listed in Lonely Planet. When we arrived the man told us "I am so happy you are here! I have no rooms. But I can help you!" Well actually he had a room that would be free at 1:30am, and we were welcome to it if we wanted to wait. Since we had already spent our entire day waiting, what was a few more hours? So again, we waited.
But it was all worth it. Damascus has a beautiful Old 
City, similar to Tripoli but much larger and even more beautiful. The souq is the same style, covered alley ways woven into the neighborhoods. The spices and perfumes mixed with the hanging carcas and freshly baked sweets make for very interesting aromas wafting through the streets. Almost all of the women in Damascus wear head scarves, unlike in Lebanon where it is probably only half of the women. The driving seemed a bit more civilized, although there was much more evidence of poverty. I mentioned this to a colleague at work and she replied that Syrians aren't poor, but appearance is much less important to them than it is to the Lebanese. She said Syrians spend all their money on food.




